The Birth in Focus Podcast

041 // Tandem Nursing: Four Kids Through 9 Years & Counting w/ Mallory Tutton

In this conversation, Samantha Tollison and Mallory Tutton discuss the challenges and experiences of postpartum life, particularly focusing on breastfeeding and tandem nursing. Mallory shares her journey of breastfeeding for over nine years and the logistics of nursing multiple children!
Mallory has been nursing for 9 consecutive years, including through 3 pregnancies! She shared so much valuable wisdom and insight on how tandem nursing is not only possible, but truly beautiful and an extraordinary bonding experience, not only for herself but for the siblings who share her!
 
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040 // Pride in Perseverance: Carly's Fight to Breastfeed

In this episode, Carly Cole shares her breastfeeding journey, discussing her initial expectations, the challenges she faced, including tongue tie and latching issues, and the importance of finding the right support through lactation consultants. She reflects on her experiences with weaning, breastfeeding during pregnancy, and so much more. Carly emphasizes the rewards of breastfeeding despite the struggles and offers advice for new mothers, highlighting the significance of having a lactation consultant on standby. She also shares insights on breastfeeding in public, dietary challenges, and the emotional aspects of her journey.
Keywords breastfeeding pain, lactation, tongue tie, parenting, motherhood, weaning, support, challenges, pregnancy, breastfeeding journey
Takeaways
- Carly was not familiar with breastfeeding before having her son.- She faced unexpected challenges with latching and pain during breastfeeding.- Finding the right lactation consultant was crucial for her success.- Carly's son had a tongue tie that complicated breastfeeding.- She used a nipple shield to help with latching issues.- Carly's husband was very supportive throughout her breastfeeding journey.- She plans to wean her son around his third birthday.- Breastfeeding has made Carly feel capable and strong as a mother.- Carly faced dietary challenges due to her son's allergies.- She encourages new moms to seek help and not isolate themselves.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Carly's Family and Background02:07 Carly's Initial Thoughts on Breastfeeding05:07 Challenges Faced in the Early Days of Breastfeeding10:01 Navigating Tongue Tie and Lactation Consultants11:59 The Journey of Nursing River17:50 Weaning Process and Future Plans20:49 Preparing for Baby Number Two and Lessons Learned21:48 The Importance of Lactation Consultants23:05 Cherished Breastfeeding Memories24:25 Breastfeeding Challenges and Public Perception27:10 Navigating Dietary Restrictions29:05 Overcoming Early Struggles31:17 Support Systems in Breastfeeding32:08 Pride in Perseverance33:40 Breastfeeding's Impact on Motherhood34:59 Surprises in the Breastfeeding Journey35:51 Advice for New Moms37:01 Essential Tools for Breastfeeding39:50 The Rewards of Breastfeeding
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039 // Cultural Changes Through Breastfeeding & Motherhood

In this conversation, Tracy shares her unique journey of motherhood and breastfeeding across different cultures, including South Africa, the UK, and the US.
She discusses the challenges and triumphs of breastfeeding her three children, the importance of education and support, and the impact of moving countries on her breastfeeding experience. Tracy emphasizes the need for community and resources for new mothers, and reflects on the emotional and physical demands of breastfeeding. She offers valuable advice for expectant mothers and highlights the significance of being present for each feeding, regardless of the challenges faced.
Key Takeaways |
- Tracy's journey spans three countries and three children.- Breastfeeding is culturally accepted in South Africa and the UK.- Support systems for breastfeeding vary significantly by country.- Education before childbirth is crucial for breastfeeding success.- Breastfeeding can be challenging, even for experienced mothers.- Community support is vital for new mothers.- Tracy's experiences highlight the importance of managing expectations.- Breastfeeding journeys are unique to each child and mother.- Seeking help is essential when facing breastfeeding challenges.- Every drop of breast milk is valuable and meaningful.
Keywords |
breastfeeding, motherhood, cultural perspectives, parenting, lactation, support systems, community, postpartum, education, challenges. 
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038 // Navigating Breastfeeding Firsts w/ Alexandria Fairbairn

In this episode, Alexandria Fairbairn shares her personal journey through breastfeeding, discussing the challenges she faced, the importance of prenatal lactation support, and her thoughts on tandem nursing while pregnant. She emphasizes the emotional connection breastfeeding provides and offers valuable advice for new mothers navigating their own breastfeeding journeys.
 
Takeaways
Alexandria is a mother of two, with a 15-month-old daughter and another baby on the way.Breastfeeding was more challenging than she anticipated, especially with her first child.She experienced pain and difficulties due to her daughter's lip and tongue ties.Alexandria emphasizes the importance of prenatal lactation consultations to prepare for breastfeeding.She found support from lactation consultants and a community of mothers helpful during her journey.Sleep deprivation significantly impacted her mental health and breastfeeding experience.Alexandria considered weaning at times but ultimately chose to continue breastfeeding.She highlights the need for self-care and support from family and friends while breastfeeding.Alexandria encourages mothers to prioritize their mental health and not feel guilty about their choices.She is open to tandem nursing and values the connection it provides with her children.
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037 // Breastfeeding, Birth & Bonnie w/ Jessica Shirley

In this conversation, Jessica Shirley, mama of five, discusses her journey through motherhood, focusing on her experiences with birth, breastfeeding, and homesteading. Jessica shares her birth stories, the challenges she faced with breastfeeding, and the support she received from her family. We explore the emotional aspects of breastfeeding, the tools and accessories that helped her, and the importance of nutrition. The conversation also touches on the bond Jessica has developed with her dairy cow, Bonnie, and how they care for her as she provides for their family! 
Keywords
breastfeeding | birth stories | homesteading | parenting | motherhood | lactation support | emotional bonding | dairy cow | family support | postpartum nutrition
Takeaways
Jessica has five children and has experienced various birth methods.Her breastfeeding journey began with challenges but evolved into a strong bond.Support from her husband and family has been crucial in her breastfeeding experience.Each child's breastfeeding journey has been unique, with different challenges and successes.Nutrition is vital for breastfeeding mothers to maintain their health and energy.Jessica emphasizes the emotional connection that develops through breastfeeding.She has used lactation consultants for all her children to ensure successful breastfeeding.Public breastfeeding has become more comfortable for her over the years.Homesteading life has integrated with her breastfeeding journey, allowing for unique experiences.Jessica's bond with her dairy cow, Bonnie, reflects her nurturing nature as a mother.
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036 // Jacqui's Journey: Faith, IVF, Birth & Trauma

In this heartfelt conversation, Jacqui shares her journey through marriage, family planning, and the challenges of infertility. We talked about literally everything from military life, to IVF, and how she went from having a birth center birth with her first, to having a c-section with her second baby. 
Here are just a few of the takeaways from this episode!!-Jacqui approached family planning with a relaxed mindset, letting things happen naturally.-Struggling with PCOS made conceiving a challenge.-Financial concerns influenced their decisions regarding fertility treatments.-They found a supportive insurance plan that covered IVF treatments.-Her emotional journey included a devastating miscarriage.-Faith played a significant role in their fertility journey.
-Jacqui and her birth photographer formed a deep friendship unexpectedly.
-Birth photography captures precious moments.-Support from partners during labor is invaluable.-Empowerment in childbirth can be a transformative experience.-Transitioning to parenthood can be challenging but rewarding.-Planning for a second child involves careful consideration.
-Unexpected events during labor can lead to urgent medical decisions.-C-sections can be traumatic, especially when they are unplanned.-Every birth experience is unique and can evoke different emotions.
 
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035 // 3 Wildly Different Births - One Empowering Journey

In this Episode, Samantha and Miranda discuss Miranda's journey through motherhood and her experiences with childbirth. Miranda shares her journey through three unique births, emphasizing her decision to have a home birth for her third child. She discusses the importance of choosing a supportive birth team, the planning involved in a rural home birth, and the empowering experience of giving birth in a familiar environment. Miranda reflects on her experiences with each birth, the lessons learned, and offers advice for expecting mothers, particularly those considering home births or facing the possibility of precipitous labor.
The COVID-19 pandemic created unique challenges during her first pregnancy.
The adrenaline rush of childbirth can be exhilarating.
Mental preparation for different labor scenarios is important.
Each birth experience can be vastly different and unique.
00:00 Meet Miranda
05:48 First Birth Experience (Induction/COVID)
19:48 Second Birth Experience (Precipitous/ER Room)
35:55 Reflections and Future Plans
37:54 The Decision for Home Birth
42:01 Planning for a Rural Home Birth
49:45 The Birth Experience: A Journey of Empowerment
01:08:08 Reflections on Birth and Advice for Expecting Moms
 
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034 // Urban vs Rural Birth in Texas w/ Midwife Sabrina Elliott

In this episode of Birth in Focus, I’m joined by Midwife, Sabrina Elliott, for a powerful conversation about the contrast between urban and rural birth experiences in Texas.
Sabrina brings a rare perspective—having served families in both city centers like Fort Worth and rural communities such as Abilene and San Angelo. With deep roots in home birth midwifery, she shares how access, culture, and care models shift dramatically depending on location, and what that means for birthing families.
We explore:• How geography impacts birth choices and outcomes• The realities of serving families in rural areas• What birth looks like in Hotel• How midwives are bridging the gap with heart and skill
Sabrina’s approach to birth is holistic, evidence-based, and full of reverence for the sacred nature of this work. Whether you’re preparing for birth, working in the field, or just curious about the landscape of birth in Texas, this episode will expand your perspective.
🎧 Tune in and be inspired by how Sabrina advocates for personalized care—no matter the zip code.
 
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033 // 8+ Years of Doula Life w/ Maggie Morrison

In this episode of Birth in Focus, I’m joined by the incredible Maggie Morrison—doula, educator, and advocate for empowered, physiological birth. With over eight years of experience walking alongside families, Maggie brings a wealth of insight and heart to this conversation.
We chat about her journey into birth work, the evolution of her role as a doula, and her thoughts on potentially becoming a midwife. One of Maggie’s biggest passions is optimal fetal positioning, and we dig into why it matters so much, how it impacts labor, and practical ways to support it.
Whether you're a seasoned birth worker, a new doula, or an expectant parent wanting to better understand your body and baby during labor—this episode is full of wisdom and encouragement.
What We Cover:✨ Maggie’s journey into birth work✨ The emotional and practical side of supporting families✨ Her thoughts on midwifery and what’s holding her back (for now!)✨ Why optimal baby positioning is a game-changer✨ Tips for doulas and parents to encourage alignment and movement
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032 // The Gut-Brain-Breastfeeding Connection

Let's talk about how our GUT + BRAIN are connected to the BREASTFEEDING journy!
In this episode, I sit down with Mikaylan Cushing, a holistic lactation and gut health expert, to talk all things breastfeeding, baby bellies, and the gut-brain connection. We dive into how gut health plays a crucial role in lactation, infant wellness, and postpartum healing—and how simple, supportive shifts can make a big impact. If you're a birth worker, new parent, or just a wellness nerd, this one’s for you!
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